Navigating the unspoken rules of air travel can be tricky, especially when it comes to coveted exit row seats. A recent Reddit post on the "r/delta" forum sparked a debate about proper etiquette in these spacious rows. A passenger, seated in a window seat with no seat directly in front due to the exit door, questioned who has the right to the extra legroom and the entertainment system.

The passenger, sitting in seat 29F on a 757, explained that the absence of a seat in front provided significant extra legroom. However, the passenger in the adjacent seat (28E) had placed their bag under the empty seat in front of 29F and was using the corresponding entertainment system, even though they had their own monitor.

The Reddit user, intending to use the space for their bag and the monitor for their own entertainment, asked the online community for input on proper etiquette. The overwhelming response was that the space and entertainment system belonged to the passenger in 29F. Many users encouraged the original poster to politely but firmly assert their right to the space.

Etiquette expert Rosalinda Randall weighed in on the situation, confirming that the space and screen logically belong to the passenger in the seat aligned with them. She offered several suggestions for addressing the issue, including politely informing the other passenger of the designated space or requesting flight attendant assistance. Randall emphasized a non-confrontational approach, suggesting phrases like, "It's a bit confusing, but that is my designated space." She also acknowledged the potential for conflict in today's climate, suggesting that sometimes, letting the matter go might be the more peaceful option.

Other Reddit users provided tactical advice, such as placing one's bag in the foot space during preflight checks and then pointing out the other passenger's bag when the flight attendant requests carry-on items be stowed. One user even suggested simply selecting the desired movie on the monitor once the plane was airborne, subtly reclaiming the entertainment system.

This online discussion highlights the ambiguities of airplane etiquette and the need for clear communication and consideration among passengers.