A Florida entrepreneur and father, Aric Berquist, candidly shares his initial reaction to learning his fourth child would be born with Down syndrome, and how his son, Asher, has imparted profound life lessons.

Berquist describes the moment he received the news from his wife, Gretchen, as a physical blow. "I literally felt like I'd lost the air in my chest," he recounted in a recent video and interview. The news brought a wave of sadness, anger, and frustration. However, amidst the emotional turmoil, a powerful question resonated within him: "Who are you to tell me what a blessing is?" This unexpected introspection, which he describes as a strong, reassuring voice, led him to tears.

A subsequent ultrasound confirmed Asher's diagnosis. The Berquists prepared themselves and their older children for Asher's arrival. On the day of his birth, Berquist recalls a profound sense of receiving a precious gift. Asher, now a vibrant 13-year-old in sixth grade, has brought immeasurable joy to the family, particularly evident at their eldest daughter's recent wedding.

Berquist emphasizes Asher's remarkable presence and ability to connect with others. "He occupies the current moment like nobody I have ever met," he shares. This unique quality makes those around him feel seen and acknowledged. Asher's love for sports, particularly flag football and soccer, strengthens his bond with his older brothers, Andrew and Adam. His connection with Adam, the closest in age, is described by Berquist as exceptionally deep and beautiful.

Asher's journey hasn't been without challenges. He underwent bypass surgery within his first three months due to heart complications, a common concern for children with Down syndrome. Down syndrome, a genetic condition caused by an extra chromosome 21, affects approximately 5,700 babies born in the U.S. each year. While there are physical and developmental characteristics associated with the condition, not every individual exhibits all of them. Life expectancy for individuals with Down syndrome has significantly increased in recent decades, from 25 in 1983 to 60 today.

Berquist reflects on the profound lessons he's learned from Asher, particularly the importance of living in the present moment. He encourages embracing the present, navigating challenges with resilience, and appreciating the beauty in everyday life.